Tuesday, 24 July 2012

The Frenchman and a pregnant lady


Today was tiring.

It started of as a light day. A few people coming and going, then BAM! By 10:00 am, all the seats were occupied and the line just never ended. I had an encounter with an old Spanish lady who wanted to renew her I-card. She was 83 years old and married to a Filipino during the 1960s. the only problem was, she needed so many documents which made it troublesome for both parties to provide since she applied for her permanent visas even before my parents even met each other. Haha

The point is—she was a special case. I ended up being a liaison officer for the day, walking around the whole building, trying to get some answers, because let’s face it, if that 83 year old woman did what I did, we’d have a lawsuit by the end of the day.

I’m sure you’re wondering why there’s a French man and pregnant woman involved. Well, let me tell you now. Since my day consisted of basically trying to solve this Spanish woman’s case, the Frenchman started my day well and the pregnant lady, well, shall I say ended my day feeling a little bit queasy.

The Frenchman arrived at 8:00 am to implement his 13(a) visa. He’s married to a Filipina with a kid. He was quite charming and dashing in a campy-styled kind of way (Although his accent was really out of this world). With him seemed like his older brother or friend who got his I-card. Both handsome. Both were staring at me. and so I did what I had to do, I STARED BACK. Hahaha Mr. married Frenchman was a good friend and became his friend’s wingman and asked for my number, I ended up asking for theirs so that I don’t have to give mine. So now, I have his number and I don’t know what to do with it. end of story.

As my day started off like it was going to be an easy breezy day, there came the Spanish lady. So by the time I got back to my window, which was at around 2:00 pm, I was exhausted from all the walking and the undecided departments. It was somehow frustrating.

Anyway, by 4:00 pm, I noticed that the couple in front of my window was a little bit irritated. And then I noticed that the Filipina wife was pregnant and seemed like her baby was kicking TOO much. She was in pain. After a minute later, they found out that ARD could not find the Americans application for his I-card (not our fault, we never lost a file), she got so upset that it looked like she was going to give birth right then and there. It was intense. I ended up leaving my window and provided the wife with some water. It was a good thing that the American was calm and kind. He didn’t get mad. This is how our conversation went:

Me: ma’am, are you okay? (wife was already crying)

Wife: NO! its their fault. They should’ve had it. (caressing her stomach to soothe her)

Husband: honey, calm down (caressing her legs to soothe her) 

Me: ma’am, please calm down. We do not want you to stress out. Would you like some water?

Wife: its not funny dad! We’ve been waiting for so long and they just lost it? my back hurts and im stressed out!

Husband: calm down honey. I know. Im not laughing. It happens. They lost my application and there’s nothing we can do about it.

Wife: (looking directly at me, drank my water) hindi kasi dapat ako ma-stress. 8 months na kasi toh, dapat bed rest lang ako. Baka makunan ako kaya nagwoworry lang ako. Pagod na pagod na ako. Taga cavite pa kami.

Me: sir, what did they tell you at the window? You should just go home and call first before you go back here. And please don’t bring her anymore.

Husband: I know. She promised she’d call me once everything is settled. (looking at his wife) when I come back, you don’t have to go with me. I can ask somebody else.

** did I mention that the husband is disabled? SHET.

The moment was intense. My stomach hurt. I couldn’t live knowing that the immigration was the reason why she might get a miscarriage.

But tomorrow is a new day.


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